Tuesday, 16 August 2011

Naming a relationship.

bestfriend
boyfriend
girlfriend
love of my life
BFF...

the most common tags we use in our daily lives...we all have a child inside us who needs protection from the so called problems that we create..and we give these tags to the people in our lives who we assume are going to help us through thick and thin..

are we seriouslyy tht incapable of solving any problem at hand without taking the help of any of these people..

lately, i have a feelin that all of our problems arise because of these relationships.
we give a certain tag to a particular relationship and then expect them to fulfill the role theior tags assume they should..

a bestfriend has to hear all ur problems has to know each and every minute detail...if they dont....how can u still call them their best friend? my question is y nott...
i fail to accept the fact tht my best friends need to kno each and every thgt of mine through the passing moments...but yet at heart...they mean the world to me..

the love of my life may not necessarily be in love with me...but what really matters is do i still love him?? if i do...y stop because he is suppose to love me in return..
so wht if he doesntt..
the passin has died inside him...but its stilll alive inside me...
wht do i do with it???? just ignore it because he doesnt feel the same way...or keep those feelings alive and keep spreading my love beyond his expectations..

best friends forever....not necessarily!!!
i maybe ur best friend nowww...i may meet u everyday now...but just because all of this comes to an end...and i dont meet u daily...
does tht lead to being a bad friend? tht we arent BFF'S anymore..

naming a relationship is very tricky..
lately,one of my best friends turned into my boyfriend...
and the transition can be painful yet joyous...

painful because suddenlyyy...the possesiveness, the jealousy, the need creeps in...
joyous because ur with a friend whos always been there...

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